Expect the unexpected they said.. two kids later and we have our hands full. A 3 year old with a mind of a rational 20 year old and a 1 year old who I’ve been told has “the gift”. My experiences are real and unique. My partner and I are not married (yet) but being in a same-sex parenting dynamic was never a worry of mine, until now. My kids have minds of their own and not to mention our country has recently changed….. drastically! We shall see what will happen.